Sexual Addiction

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Pornography Addiction

We are all perverts, and those that claim otherwise, are also liars.
Know thy self in order to overcome!

A recent survey performed on 1,000 professing
Christian men and women found that 50% of the men and
20% of the women surveyed were
addicted to pornography.

If you feel you are able to control your obsession with porn, then take this
assessment to see who is controlling who  -  
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Like any addiction, sexual permissiveness becomes the drug to relieve
stress, to cut the edge of emotional pain, often playing a self-nurturing role.

Like the self-mutilator who cuts the pain out, the true sex addict takes no
real pleasure in the actual sexual act, but rather feels great shame
afterwards, confusing lust with love, the addiction then becomes more
heinous.

"Why do you think the Media is so important to us? You have (as a society), in your hypnotized comatose state, given
your Free Will consent to the state your planet is in today. You saturate your minds with the unhealthy dishes served up for you on
your televisions that you are addicted to, violence, pornography, greed, hatred, selfishness, incessant 'bad news', fear and 'terror'.

When was the last time you stopped to think of something beautiful and pure? The planet is the way it is, because of your
collective thoughts about it. You are complicit in your inaction, every time you 'look the other way' when you see an injustice. Your
'thought' at the sub-conscious level of creation to the Creator, is your allowance of these things to occur. In so doing, you are
serving our purpose.

It is very important to us, that the Polarization of this planet is Negative at the time of the Great Harvest. That means Service to Self
orientated, as opposed to Positive, Service to Others. We require a Negative Harvest, (For their-self, not you!) and you are doing
a fine job of helping us to attain our goal. We are very grateful." -
Hidden_Hand (A social memory complex)

If pornography is causing adversary in your life, read on even if you think it is not. By allowing the medias to bombard us
with sexually explicit images, our group consciousness is becoming seared. With the advent of the computer screen we now have a
one way mirror to hide behind. Therefore,
cyber-sex has become an epidemic. Many of us have begun throwing ethical hygiene
and caution to the wind and it is causing grief for us, or our loved ones.


Mind Management

Controlling our thoughts should then be our top priorities. Our minds are like a computer because it only knows the data we feed it.
Dr. Hans Selye researched a tiny membrane in the back of our head known as the Reticular Activating System. The RAS primary
function moves us towards our dominant thought at that moment.

We naturally act on whatever we fill our minds with. Whatever preoccupies our thought is then what we eventually want to act on.
This explains why there are so many rapes after men continuously watch porn or girls dance in stripe clubs. Playing violent video
games also explains why our young people often become violent.

By the time our youth become young adults they have seen, on average, more than 4,000 murders on TV, not including violent
video games. Studies have shown that the images we see impact our brains. For instance, youth who have higher levels of
exposure to
violence, often have a reduction in cognitive function.

Therefore, the more violence they see, the less reasoned they become. In that, their minds lose a sense of consequence for their
behavior much like any addiction, be it porn or cocaine. It's as if their minds have stored up destructive behavior until that's all they
know.

Fantasies are always more fulfilling than realities.

If you must work to justify a behavior, question your motives.


The Law of One & Sexual Energy:

"Questioner: I have a question that the instrument (communication translator) has asked me to ask. It reads: You (Ra) speak of
various types of energy blockages and transfers, positive and negative that may take place due to participation in our sexual
reproductive complex of actions. Could you please explain these blockages and energy transfers with emphasis upon what an
individual who is seeking to be in accordance with the Law of One may positively do in this area? Is it possible for you to answer
this question?
Ra: I am Ra.(a social memory complex that remains within our consciousness hoping to clear up the distortion it created in its zeal to aid the people
of Egypt many thousands of years in the past )
 Energy transfer (is) blocked only if one or both entities have fear of possession or of
being possessed, of desiring possession or desiring being possessed.

It shall be of interest at this point to note that there is always the possibility of using these opportunities
(sexual energies) to polarize
towards the negative, and this has been aided by the gradual building up over many thousands of your years of social complex
distortions which create a tendency towards confusion, shall we say, or baffling of the service to others aspect of this energy
transfer and subsequent opportunities for service to other selves.


Questioner: I was thinking more of the possibility of the Orion (service-to-self orientation known to most as “”Devil or evil”) group
influencing certain members of the Third Reich who I have read reports of having sexual gratification from the observation of the
gassing and killing of entities in the gas chambers.
Ra: I am Ra. We shall repeat these entities had the potential for sexual energy buildup. The choice of stimulus is certainly the
choice of the entity. In the case of which you speak, these entities were strongly polarized orange ray, thus finding the energy
blockage of power over others, the putting to death being the ultimate power over others; this then being expressed in a sexual
manner, though solitary. In this case the desire would continue unabated and be virtually unquenchable.

You will find, if you observe the entire spectrum of sexual practices among your peoples, that there are those who experience such
gratification from domination over others either from rape or from other means of domination. In each case this is an example of
energy blockage which is sexual in its nature.

The sexual energy transfers and blockages are more a manifestation or example of that which is more fundamental than the other
way about. Therefore, as your peoples became open to the concepts of bellicosity and the greed of ownership, these various
distortions then began to filter down through the tree of mind into body complex expressions, the sexual expression being basic to
that complex. Thus these sexual energy blockages, though Orion influenced and intensified, are basically the product of the being-
ness chosen freely by your peoples."


The Law of One and the Homosexual Orientation;

"Questioner: We have what seems to be an increasing number of entities incarnate here now who have what is called a
homosexual orientation. Could you explain and expand upon that concept?
Ra: I am Ra. Entities of this condition experience a great deal of distortion due to the fact that they have experienced many
incarnations as biological male and as biological female. This would not suggest what you call homosexuality in an active phase
were it not for the difficult vibratory condition of your planetary sphere. There is what you may call great aura infringement among
your crowded urban areas in your more populous countries, as you call portions of your planetary surface. Under these conditions
the confusions will occur.

Questioner: Why does density of population create these confusions?
Ra: I am Ra. The bisexual reproductive urge has as its goal, not only the simple reproductive function, but more especially the
desire to serve others being awakened by this activity.

In an over-crowded situation where each mind/body/spirit complex is under constant bombardment from other-selves it is
understandable that those who are especially sensitive would not feel the desire to be of service to otherselves. This would also
increase the probability of a lack of desire or a blockage of the red ray reproductive energy.

In an uncrowded atmosphere this same entity would, through the stimulus of feeling the solitude about it, then have much more
desire to seek out someone to whom it may be of service thus regularizing the sexual reproductive function.

Questioner: Roughly how many previous incarnations would a male entity in this incarnation have had to have had in the past as
a female to have a highly homosexual orientation in this incarnation?
Ra: I am Ra. If an entity has had roughly 65% of its incarnations in the sexual/biological body complex, the opposite polarity to its
homosexual nature.

It is to be noted at this juncture that although it is much more difficult, it is possible in this type of association for an entity to be of
great service to another in fidelity and sincere green ray love of a nonsexual nature thus adjusting or lessening the distortions of
its sexual impairment.

Questioner: Is there an imprint occurring on the DNA coding of an entity so that sexual biases are imprinted due to early sexual
experiences?
Ra: I am Ra. This is partially correct. Due to the nature of solitary sexual experiences, it is in most cases unlikely that what you call
masturbation has an imprinting effect upon later experiences.

This is similarly true with some of the encounters which might be seen as homosexual among those of this age group. These are
often, instead, innocent exercises in curiosity.

However, it is quite accurate that the first experience in which the mind/body/spirit complex is intensely involved will indeed imprint
upon the entity for that life experience a set of preferences.

Questioner: Does the Orion group use this as a gateway to impress upon entities preferences which could be of a negative
polarization?
Ra: I am Ra. Just as we of the Confederation attempt to beam our love and light whenever given the opportunity, including sexual
opportunities, so the Orion group will use an opportunity if it is negatively oriented or if the individual is negatively oriented."


The Wave Series Transcripts and the Homosexual Orientation;

"Q: (J) Does the human state of sexuality, such as homosexuality, have something to do with changing sexes from one lifetime
(
incarnation) to another?
A: Sometimes.

Q: (L) When and why did homosexuality originate?
A: It originated when sexuality did."


Basically what the above is conveying without seeming to be judgmental of our free-will right to choose our sexual
preference, is that faithful and respectable non-dominating sexual relationships are of the service-to-others orientation in its
highest form. Therefore, freeing these from much heart ache and negative karmic entanglements.

More on social memory complexes can be found on my Transcripts page
(HERE)

There does not appear to be a pure enough religion which can dictate for us a moral right nor wrong. However, there are simple
ethical lessons for each of us to learn.

If you are sexually aroused by children, simply stay away from them!

Do not feed your inner monster even a handful, or it will soon eat your hand!

As is with any form of addiction, it does not take free-will long to close the gap between control and out-of-control behavior.

Because so many young boys and girls are seduced by those who they should have been able to trust, some of them then learn to
become distrustful towards persons of the opposing sex. And some lose respect for their own-self, while others begin using sex as
a bribe to get what they desire. Those who are programed to become sex toys at an early age often repeat the act as a means to
feel the same empowerment over their own children. Much the way a man rapes a woman in order to feel self-empowered, sex
becomes a manifestation of the possession process.

I personally don't care what you do with your own life, nor do I care what your sexual preference is, it's your choice, not mine to
make  All I ask is that you do not promote alternative lifestyles around kids. If they choose the gay lifestyle, respect their choice.
You will not see me making out with my wife in public, and I will honor your choice if I do not see you making out with your partner.
Deal?
Whomever copied this pic & placed it on your porn-site linked back here; U have a morbid sense of humor!
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